Last Tuesday while at Homework Haven, one of the young men and I began talking about friendships and relationships. He was upset because one of the young ladies was not making a wise decision even after him, and others, let her know of their concerns for her and her safety. From this came a discussion of our views on friendships and relationships.
What came to light for me is that he sees all friendships and relationships as conditional. The idea of "I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine". This was an eye opening and heart opening conversation for both of us. With me coming at the discussion from the thought of Christ and how He loves us unconditionally, I try in my best effort to love those around me in much the same way (and I will be honest, I fail daily, but I try). He, on the other hand comes at it from a worldly perspective of what is in his best interest. It was incredible being at a homework club, and somehow such a deep conversation arises. This is just one of several encouragements to me that God really can and does use all things, circumstances, and people to make His name famous.
What was interesting is that through the course of the conversation, I was better able to understand where he was coming from, yet he also began to see the significance in unconditional love within friendships and relationships and that he, in fact, showed unconditional love at times, which, if we're all honest, is how we all are. Only God truly loves unconditionally because we are selfish people with a sinful nature, but God is perfect and in that, His love is perfect. There are many times when I get discouraged in the ministry, thinking that the time we spend with the young people goes unappreciated, unnoticed, and the conversations in one ear and out the other. But I wanted to share this encouragement with you that that is not the case, God is moving, and the Holy Spirit is working in the lives of the young people over here.
Praise God for His unconditional love and I pray that as we draw closer to Him, others draw closer to us, that an invisible Kingdom may become visible...Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, one earth as it is in heaven.
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